Tuesday, June 18, 2013

5 Ways to Train Yourself to Be a Great Leader



5 Ways to Train Yourself to Be a Great Leader
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There aren't many natural born leaders. Most leaders take responsibility for training themselves to be effective. Whether you learn from the wisdom of others or get insights from personal experience, becoming a more effective leader is about what you do, not what know.
Here are five things you can do to train yourself to be a great leader:
1. Keep promises, period.
Never make promises you're not sure you can keep. Nothing kills your credibility quicker than a breached promise or unfulfilled expectation.
Sometimes keeping promises can be challenging, if not downright painful. This commitment will develop discipline and integrity. Practice it with your kids as well as colleagues.
2. Dress to influence.
Don't dress to impress, dress to influence. That means making sure your appearance is consistent with your personal and professional brand. Begin by asking yourself how a leader with your aspirations should appear to others.
And don't limit appearance to just yourself. Apply it to your company. Butler Amusements, a Fairfield, Cal.-based carnival company, has always prided itself on having the cleanest trucks in the business and has built a brand around the slogan: "The Cleanest Show in the West."

3. Treat your team as you expect them to treat customers.
Asking your team to be courteous to customers and being a jerk to them is incongruent and hypocritical. Being the leader doesn't give you a free pass to indulge your base instincts. The way you treat people is a barometer to everyone on your team.
Robert Greenleaf coined the term "servant leadership" in the 1960's. It isn't about being servile, but about finding ways to support your employees so they can become successful. Periodically ask: "What can I do to help?"

4. Show your commitment to personal growth.
There are ultimately only two ways to grow your business: grow yourself and grow your team. As you and your team improve, so do service levels, operational efficiency and everything else.
Suncoast Coffee Service and Vending is a small company of twenty employees based in Tampa, Florida. The founders pay employees to read books that benefit both their personal and professional lives. Through the company's reading program, called Making People Better, books are distributed to employees, along with a "read by" date. Employees have approximately one month to read the book and are given $50 after completing it. At the end of the month, employees meet to discuss the book.
5. Ask rather than wait for feedback.
Some leaders react to unsolicited feedback as criticism and miss an opportunity to learn. But waiting for your employees to become brave enough to offer you feedback is a risky proposition. Don't ask employees what they like or dislike about you. You'll get better information by asking: "In your opinion, what might I do to become a more effective leader?"
Listen for actionable behavior. If someone says you'd be more effective by communicating more clearly, ask for an example of when you haven't, so you'll understand what he or she means.
Which of these actions will you take first to train yourself to be a better leader?

The Charter at Beaver Creek


Hotel Description

172 rooms, 0 floors
The Charter at Beaver Creek offers lodge accommodations and condominiums approximately 31 miles from the Vail Eagle airport and about 130 miles from Denver. This lodging option is within easy walking distance of many restaurants, shops, and businesses. The property offers a courtesy van for easy transportation within Beaver Creek. During your leisure time, enjoy the health club, full service spa, indoor pool, seasonal outdoor pool, whirlpool, sauna, and steam room. If your visit coincides with summer months, there is an 18-hole golf course adjacent to the property.
The Terrace Restaurant serves breakfast daily. With fully equipped kitchens in each condo, guests will be able to easily prepare healthy meals in the privacy and convenience of their own accommodations. For added convenience, the Charter offers concierge services, a sports shop, ski storage, free parking, and a business center.
Lodge rooms and condominiums with one to five bedrooms are available. Decor is upscale, and lodge-inspired. Lodge rooms include a mini-refrigerator, coffeemaker, and VCR. Each condo has a living room, fireplace, balcony, a bathroom for each bedroom, a fully equipped kitchen (stove/oven, electric range, SubZero refrigerator, microwave, toaster, dishwasher), washer/dryer, daily housekeeping, fireplace, living room, patio, parking, and cable television.

Hotel Amenities

(Additional fees may apply to some amenities)
  • Pool
  • Shuttle
  • Parking
  • Restaurant
  • Internet Access
  • Room Service
  • Fitness Facility
  • Business Center

Dining Options

Black Diamond Bistro
One of Beaver Creek’s newest restaurants, Black Diamond Bistro is a perfect place to enjoy dinner with friends or family. The Bistro serves contemporary American fare in a friendly and relaxed setting, surrounded by breathtaking views of Beaver Creek. Guests can also stop by the bar for après, to grab a burger or to watch the big game. Bar & Lounge open at 3:00 pm, Restaurant opens at 5:30 pm.
The Terrace Restaurant
Situated at the base of The Charter’s grand staircase, The Terrace Restaurant offers sweeping views of Beaver Creek Mountain and Village. The all-natural items on the hot and cold breakfast buffet offer something for every taste. Our chef uses only the freshest products available, including fresh fruits, all-natural breakfast meats and cage-free egg dishes, to ensure healthy and delicious mountain dining. Open 7:00 am - 10:30 am.

Hyatt Regency Miami


Hotel Description

612 rooms, 24 floors
Centrally located in the heart of exciting downtown Miami, the Hyatt Regency Miami is only seven miles from the Miami International Airport, just 15 minutes from South Beach and two miles from the Port of Miami. Enjoy easy access to Miami's best attractions like Mary Brickell Village and Bayside Market Place for shopping and dining, Parrott Jungle, Miami Seaquarium and the Latin flavor of Little Havana. Stay with us before or after a cruise, extending your visit to Florida’s favorite city.

The hotel offers 4 Star, 4 Diamond services and amenities such as Concierge service, 24 hour full service business center with staff available, valet parking, gift shop, heated outdoor swimming pool, fully equipped StayFit gym. Enjoy breakfast, lunch and dinner at our RiverWalk Café, relax at our cool Pure Verde Lounge, or grab a snack at the Riverwalk Deli. Room service is available as well.

Feel at home in our spacious Miami accommodations, featuring contemporary design with residential touches. Our spacious Miami, FL accommodations have floor-to-ceiling windows with stunning city views, modern furniture and fixtures, deluxe granite baths, walk-in closets, an iHome stereo with iPod® docking station, 32" flat screen TV and one King or two Double plush Hyatt Grand Beds. Oversized ergonomic work areas and Wi-Fi Internet access offer added convenience and comfort.

Hotel Amenities

(Additional fees may apply to some amenities)
  • Pool
  • Non-Smoking
  • Internet Access
  • Room Service
  • Fitness Facility
  • Dry Cleaning/Laundry
  • Business Center
  • Convention Center
  • Meeting Rooms
  • Executive Floor
  • Interior Corridors

Dining Options

Dining Options
PURE VERDE LOUNGE
WIND DOWN IN OUR CHIC MIAMI BAR WITH TROPICAL DRINKS AND
DELICIOUS LATIN INSPIRED MENU.
LOCATION - ON PROPERTY
TYPE OF FOOD - INTERNATIONAL
DRESS CODE - NO
HOURS OF OPERATION -
MONDAY - FRIDAY 1100AM-0100AM
SATURDAY - 1100AM-0100AM
SUNDAY - 1200PM-0100AM
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RIVERWALK CAFE
FULL AMERICAN BREAKFAST BUFFETT, LUNCH AND DINNER.
CONTINENTAL CASUAL CUISINE.
LOCATION - ON PROPERTY
TYPE OF FOOD - AMERICAN
DRESS CODE - YES
HOURS OF OPERATION -
MONDAY - 0630AM-1100PM
TUESDAY - 0630AM-1100PM
WEDNESDAY - 0630AM-1100PM
THURSDAY - 0630AM-1100PM
FRIDAY - 0630AM-1200AM
SATURDAY - 0630AM-1200AM
SUNDAY - 0630AM-1100PM
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ROOM SERVICE
HOURS OF OPERATION - DAILY 0600AM-1259AM
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Flamingo Las Vegas

3555 LAS VEGAS BLVD SO LAS VEGAS, NV 89109


Hotel Description

3,545 rooms, 28 floors
The Flamingo, Bugsy Siegel's desert dream, is located on the famous Four Corners of the Las Vegas Strip, contains grandiose features, such as a 77,000 square-foot casino, headline entertainment, a wildlife habitat, and a water playground, and is approximately four miles north of McCarran International Airport.

The Flamingo's casino features a vibrant Caribbean theme, and offers more than 1,600 slot machines, a sports book, and 89 table games. The Wildlife Habitat is admission free, and is home to flamingos, penguins, and other exotic animals. The 15-acre Caribbean-style water playground features cascading waterfalls, four pools, pool cabana rentals, seasonal poolside Flamingo Beach Club Cafe, and seasonal waterslides. Dining options include Asian cuisine at Hamada of Japan, Java Coast, the tropical menu of Margaritaville, the Paradise Garden Buffet, featuring views of animals frolicking in the habitat, Steakhouse46, the Tropical Breeze Cafe, and Burger Joint. Athletic activities include tennis courts, and access to the offsite Cascata and Rio Secco Golf Clubs. Two onsite showrooms feature live headline entertainment. Also featuring a 73,000-square-foot conference center, Alexandra Salon, and a fitness center and spa, containing three whirlpools, saunas, and therapeutic and beauty treatments. Rounding out the amenities are a business center, video arcade, bell staff, laundry and dry cleaning, full-service UPS store, complimentary parking, valet laundry service, a hair salon, shopping, three bars, and 24-hour room service.

All 3,545 rooms feature high-speed Internet access (fee applies), Web TV (with video games), voicemail, irons and ironing boards, hairdryers, individual climate control, safes (fee applies), and cable TV. Must be 21 years old to check into the hotel

Hotel Amenities

(Additional fees may apply to some amenities)
  • Pool
  • Non-Smoking
  • Internet Access
  • Room Service
  • Fitness Facility
  • Casino
  • Dry Cleaning/Laundry
  • Golf Course
  • Tennis Courts
  • Business Center
  • Convention Center
  • Meeting Rooms
  • Interior Corridors
  • Wheelchair Accessible

Dining Options

Dining Options
-ON SITE RESTAURANT
TROPICAL BREEZE
HOURS OF OPERATION SUN-THUR 6A-12A, FRI/SAT -24
HRS
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OUR CASUAL DINING RESTAURANT HAS AN ISLAND CAFE
SETTING THAT OFFERS BOTH HEARTY AMERICAN FARE AND
TROPICAL SPECIALTIES.
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PARADISE GARDEN BUFFET
WATCH THE PLAYFUL ANTICS OF LIVE FLAMINGOS WHILE
ENJOYING A FRESH FEAST AT THE PARADISE GARDEN
BUFFET. ENJOY A SCRUMPTIOUS SALAD AND FRESH FRUIT
BAR ALONG WITH MOUNDS OF SHRIMP ON ICE, ALASKAN
CRAB LEGS AND SEAFOOD SALADS.
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GARDEN BUFFET-HOURS OF OPERATION BREAKFAST -
7AM-230P
DINNER -430P-10P
CHAMPAGNE BRUNCH SAT-SUN 7A-3P
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STEAKHOUSE 46
HOURS OF OPERATION-5P-10 30P NIGHTLY
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BURGER JOINT
THE FUN AND FUNKY BURGER JOINT SERVES UP A
SIZZLING SELECTION OF BOTH TRADITIONAL COMFORT
BURGERS AND DIVINE WORKS OF ART. THE STYLISH
DINING AND BAR AREAS FEATURE A SLEW OF FLAT SCREEN
TVS LIVELY MUSIC AND HIP DECOR.
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MARGARITAVILLE
HOURS OF OPERATION-11A-2A DAILY
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MARGARITAVILLE IS AS MUCH A STATE OF MIND AS IT IS
A PLACE.
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THE MULTI-LEVEL CARIBBEAN-THEMED ENTERTAINMENT
VENUE OFFERS TWO OUTDOOR PATIOS OVERLOOKING THE
LAS VEGAS STRIP, A NAUTICAL-THEMED RESTAURANT,
FIVE DISTINCTIVE BARS, LIVE ENTERTAINMENT NIGHTLY
BOTH INDOORS AND OUTDOORS AND A 3,000-SQUARE-FOOT
RETAIL STORE.
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HAMADA OF JAPAN
HOUR OF OPERATION 5PM-11PM NIGHTLY
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JAVA COAST
HOURS OF OPERATION-6A-10P DAILY
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SERVING FRESHLY BREWED GOURMET COFFEE, ESPRESSO
AND CAPPUCCINO, JAVA COAST IS A GREAT PLACE TO
STOP FOR A DELICIOUS CUP OF COFFEE. JAVA COAST
ALSO OFFERS SANDWICHES, DESSERTS AND NATHAN S
FAMOUS HOT DOGS SOUTHWEST CASINO LOCATION ONLY .
BOTH LOCALES OFFER INDOOR AND PATIO SEATING.
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-OFF SITE RESTAURANT
Center Cut Las Vegas Steakhouse at Flamingo Las Vegas Hotel and Casino
Enjoy Las Vegas fine dining at Flamingo Las Vegas’ new classic, Center Cut Steakhouse. The menu at Center Cut features Las Vegas steakhouse favorites such as the 20 oz. rib-eye and the 24 oz. porterhouse, made from all natural premium beef sourced from Aspen Ridge Farms in Colorado. The beef at Center Cut Steakhouse is provided by cows that are born and raised solely in the United States and are 100 percent hormone and steroid-free. In addition to mouth-watering steaks, the menu offers a wide variety of seafood dishes and other exquisitely prepared entrées such as the ultimate steakhouse Kobe burger and rack of lamb. Rounding out the menu is an assortment of delicious salads, sides and desserts. Center Cut is a Las Vegas steakhouse that houses a large bar and lounge area offering a robust selection of specialty martinis in addition to classic cocktails, mixed drinks and wines by the glass. Happy hour runs daily from 11am to 7pm at this Flamingo Las Vegas fine dining destination and includes 2-for-1 martinis and call drinks.
Flamingo Las Vegas Food Court – Las Vegas Restaurants
The Flamingo Las Vegas Food Court puts together casual dining choices from Johnny Rockets, Bonanno’s Pizzeria, Pan Asian Express and L.A. Subs & Salads. Johnny Rockets features friendly service and great food in a fun and nostalgic atmosphere. The restaurant boasts great tasting food from a menu of favorites including juicy hamburgers, classic sandwiches, and hand-dipped shakes and malts. Featuring hand tossed brick-oven pizza made with all natural ingredients, Bonanno’s Pizza serves "Fresh from the kitchen" entrees like baked ziti, lasagna, spaghetti, meatballs and chicken dishes, beautifully displayed and ready to eat. Pan Asian Express is a modern Asian bistro with an array of dishes including vegetables, meats, poultry, seafood, rice, noodles and dumplings. Employing the stir-fry technique, master chefs retain the natural flavor and texture of each dish prepared. Menu selections include fresh made sub sandwiches, California style wraps, grilled panini, fresh salads and more at L.A. Subs and Salads, where the difference is in the quality of and freshness of the products with premium deli meats and cheeses sliced daily fresh on premises. The Flamingo Las Vegas Food Court is a great destination for all your Las Vegas casual dining needs!
Hamada of Japan Restaurant at Flamingo Las Vegas Hotel and Casino
For nearly a decade, Hamada of Japan has been a favorite Las Vegas Japanese restaurant seeking an authentic taste of the east at Flamingo. Flamingo Las Vegas guests can enjoy a variety of sushi selections, from the California roll to the more traditional uni, or sea urchin, at our popular sushi bar. Meat and seafood dishes can be cooked to order, or you can choose from an extensive menu served in the main dining room. Las Vegas casual dining choices include our traditional low-table Tatami Room or the authentic Teppan Room, where knife-wielding chefs artistically prepare steaks, shrimp, lobster and marinated chicken to the enthusiastic delight of diners. In characteristic Japanese fashion, dishes at this Las Vegas Japanese restaurant are beautifully presented, serving as a feast for the eyes as well as the palate. If you're having trouble deciding, the chef at Hamada of Japan at Flamingo Las Vegas Hotel and Casino recommends the beef sukiyaki, shabu-shabu and seafood chicken as well as the udon noodles and tempura.
Jimmy Buffett’s Margaritaville Restaurant at Flamingo Las Vegas Hotel and Casino
Margaritaville is as much a state of mind as it is a place. Jimmy Buffett’s Margaritaville Las Vegas restaurant is a multi-level Caribbean-themed entertainment venue offering two outdoor patios overlooking the Las Vegas Strip, a nautical-themed restaurant, five distinctive bars, live entertainment nightly (both indoors and outdoors) and a 3,000-square-foot retail store. The menu at this Flamingo Las Vegas restaurant reflects the flavors of Jimmy Buffett's island travels. Margaritaville Restaurant entrees include a grilled sirloin steak topped with Hawaiian butter, served with mashed potatoes and seasonal vegetables. For those who prefer seafood, fresh fish is offered daily including Mahi Mahi, Salmon and Tilapia. Fish may be grilled or blackened with a choice of sauces such as fresh pineapple salsa, Hawaiian butter and Jerk barbecue. The signature "Cheeseburger in Paradise" at Jimmy Buffett’s Margaritaville at Flamingo Las Vegas is a seven-ounce patty of USDA choice ground Angus beef, topped with cheddar cheese, lettuce, tomato and a slice of red onion, served on a sesame seed bun. The award-winning burger at this Las Vegas casual dining delight is described by Buffett as "a big warm bun and a huge hunk of meat."
Paradise Garden Las Vegas Buffet at Flamingo Las Vegas Hotel and Casino
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Promenade Food Court at Flamingo Las Vegas Hotel and Casino
Take your rumbling stomach to the food court on Flamingo Las Vegas Promenade for snacks from TCBY, Mrs. Fields or Java Detour.When your stomach's rumbling, you don't always have the time – or the desire – for a sit-down meal. That's why Flamingo’s new Las Vegas food court has three spots where you can enjoy a quick snack or beverage. Frozen yogurt is all the rage these days, but there's only one true original: TCBY – The Country’s Best Yogurt. Since 1981, they have created innovative new flavors and products, ranging from their signature soft-serve to fruit smoothies and hand-scooped yogurt. Learn more here. Mrs. Fields has also opened up a Flamingo location. Here, you can enjoy cookies, "nibblers," decorated cookie cakes for special occasions, brownies, gift baskets, bake-at-home supplies and much more. Learn more here. Finally, when you're craving a pick-me-up, Java Detour is worth a special trip. They serve premium coffee and tea drinks like cappuccino, espresso, and lattes, along with exotic creations like the Black & White Mocha or the "Cold Rush" Oreo Cookie Latte. Java Detour also features a juice bar offering healthy choices like the Breakfast Triathlon and indulgences like the Strawberry Cream Shake. Visit any of the three Promenade Food Court’s Las Vegas restaurants at Flamingo Las Vegas to satisfy your hunger!
Tropical Breeze Café at Flamingo Las Vegas Hotel and Casino
Tropical Breeze Café is the Flamingo Las Vegas casual dining restaurant with an island cafe setting and a menu that offers both hearty American fare and island specialties. With an array of menu items such as hot and cold appetizers, pastas, soups, salads, oversized sandwiches, home-style entrees and fresh breakfast selections, the Tropical Breeze Café at Flamingo Las Vegas Hotel and Casino is a casual Las Vegas restaurant sure to satisfy every palate.

Travel Sector Outperforms Overall U.S. Trade in April


Spending by Inbound Travelers Has Generated 30% of U.S. Export Growth So Far This Year

Washington, D.C. - David Huether, senior vice president of research and economics at the U.S. Travel Association, provides analysis on today's Commerce Department announcement that the trade deficit increased by $3.2 billion in April to $40.3 billion, as the $2.2 billion rise in total exports was offset by a greater $5.4 billion surge in imports from March.
“On a positive note in an otherwise disappointing report, travel exports bucked the trend in April, growing by $23 million to $14.5 billion. As a result, the travel industry’s trade surplus improved in April to $4.2 billion. This improves the 2013 year-to-date travel surplus to $17.5 billion. Without this trade surplus, the current trade deficit would be 10.6 percent larger.

“The travel industry continues to outperform other industries in terms of export growth. While overall U.S. exports have slowed significantly this year, travel exports continue to increase at a healthy pace. Through the first four months of this year, travel exports are up 7.9 percent compared to the first four months of 2012, which is more than five-times faster than the 1.5 percent increase in other U.S. exports so far this year. As a result, the travel industry has generated close to a third (30%) of the overall increase in U.S. exports so far this year compared to the same period last year.
"Today's release shows clearly that welcoming international travelers to our country continues to be a shot of adrenaline to our economy. The ongoing increases in travel exports is one of the main reasons why the travel industry has created jobs at a 15 percent faster rate than the rest of the economy since early 2010. This is also why policymakers should support legislation such as the JOLT Act that would increase international travel spending in the United States and lower the unemployment rate by creating American jobs through the rising travel industry."
Huether is available for further analysis and comment.

U.S. Travel Applauds Administration Move to Include Chile in U.S. Visa Waiver Program


Expanding Visa-Free Travel to the United States Will Boost U.S. Economic Growth and Job Creation


Washington, D.C. - The U.S. Travel Association today applauded the U.S. Department of State for nominating Chile forinclusion in the Visa Waiver Program (VWP). This addition would enable Chilean nationals to enjoy the same visa-free entry that travelers from 37 other nations currently have access to, making it easier for them to travel to the United States for business and leisure purposes and driving additional U.S. jobs and economic growth.
"Expanding visa-free travel from allied nations to the United States is a proven path to increased economic prosperity for communities all across America while also enhancing our national security," said Roger Dow, president and CEO of the U.S. Travel Association. "We applaud the State Department for nominating Chile for inclusion in the Visa Waiver Program. U.S. Travel was the first to call for Chile's inclusion in this important program in 2011, and we have been advocating for it ever since. We hope this nomination will allow visitors from Chile to officially join the program by the end of the year and start enjoying visa-free travel to America."
VWP allows citizens of participating countries to travel to the U.S. without obtaining a nonimmigrant visitor visa for stays of up to 90 days for business or leisure, but not for work, study or residency. Visa-free travelers to the U.S. are prescreened and preapproved for entry, resulting in enhanced border security and a more secure customs and entry process. To participate in the VWP, countries must be certified by the Department of Homeland Security as meeting stringent security standards.
Inbound international travel to the U.S. is America's No. 1 services export. Easing the process for international travelers from friendly countries to visit is good for U.S. growth and public diplomacy. Overseas visitors – i.e., international visitors from those countries other than Canada and Mexico – spend an average of nearly $4,500 per trip and generate tax revenue in communities across America without burdening local services.
Expanding VWP could, if extended to Argentina, Brazil, Bulgaria, Chile, Croatia, Israel, Panama, Poland, Romania and Uruguay:
  • Increase annual visitation by more than 600,000;
  • Add more than $7 billion to the U.S. economy; and
  • Support more than 40,000 additional American jobs.

U.S. Travel Association's 2013 IPW Marketplace Sets Attendance Records


Largest Generator of Travel to the U.S. Expected to Generate $3.5 Billion in Future U.S. Travel

JUNE 11, 2013
Washington, D.C. - The U.S. Travel Association announced record-setting attendance at the 45th annual IPW (formerly International Pow Wow), the travel industry's premier international marketplace and the largest generator of travel to the U.S., taking place this week in Las Vegas. Nearly 6,400 total delegates from the U.S. and 70 other countries are present at the Las Vegas Convention Center, including 1,300 international and domestic buyers and nearly 500 media. The event is estimated to generate more than $3.5 billion in travel to the U.S. over the next three years and at least $350 million in future economic impact for the host city.
"After a dip during the recent recession, America's travel industry is back with great strength," said Roger Dow, president and CEO of the U.S. Travel Association. "IPW has experienced double-digit growth over the last three years, and literally billions of dollars in deals are being signed this week with tour operators that will bring more international visitors into the United States."
Every major American city and state tourism office attends IPW, as well as attractions, museums, amusement parks and other travel businesses. These groups market themselves to the world's top international tour operators that sell travel to the U.S. IPW pre-schedules meetings through a sophisticated online matching system to maximize productivity; 90,000-plus business meetings were scheduled for the three-day event.
"At IPW, buyers and sellers are able to conduct business that would otherwise be generated only through an exhaustive number of around-the-world trips," said Dow. "A recent Oxford Economics report we commissioned as part of our Travel Effect campaign notes that in-person meetings double the likelihood of closing a deal, and U.S. companies experience nearly $10 in revenues for every dollar invested in business travel."
The report also noted that U.S. businesses are investing record levels on domestic business travel, spending an estimated $225 million in 2012 and surpassing a historic peak set in 2007. Business travel expenditures generated 1.9 million jobs, $59 billion in personal income and $35 billion in tax revenues last year.

U.S. Travel Association Announces Seven Future IPW Host Cities


Sites Selected for 2014 Through 2020 Span United States

http://www.ustravel.org/
Washington, D.C. - The U.S. Travel Association today announced locations for its next seven annual IPW marketplaces, locking in host cities that span America through 2020. Future host cities are:
  • Chicago, Illinois – 2014 (last hosted in 1998) 
  • Orlando, Florida – 2015 (last hosted in 2010) 
  • Miami, Florida – 2016 (last hosted in 2009) 
  • Washington, D.C. – 2017 (first-time host) 
  • Denver, Colorado – 2018 (last hosted in 1991) 
  • Anaheim, California – 2019 (last hosted in 2007) 
  • Las Vegas, Nevada – 2020 (the 2013 host)
"We are bringing the largest generator of inbound travel to some of America's most remarkable destinations," said Roger Dow, president and CEO of the U.S. Travel Association. "IPW creates tremendous value for all attendees – buyers, sellers and media. This landmark event generates an estimated $3.5 billion in future travel to the United States, with host cities and states further benefiting from the exposure it provides."
U.S. Travel's IPW is the travel industry's premier international marketplace. It is not a typical trade show. In just three days of intensive prescheduled business appointments, more than 1,000 U.S. travel organizations from every region of the U.S. (representing all industry category components) and about 1,300 international and domestic buyers from more than 70 countries conduct business negotiations that result in future U.S. travel. At IPW, buyers and sellers are able to conduct business that would otherwise be generated only through an exhaustive number of around-the-world trips.

Managing your sexual health: tips for women and men re-entering the dating game!


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RSVP is committed to helping Australian singles date safely and one important aspect of this is providing information to members about sexual health. Our friends at Family Planning NSW have put together some practical information and tips for singles.

Getting back into the dating game after the end of a long-term relationship can be daunting. We hear a lot about the rise of sexually transmissible infections (known as STIs) across all age groups and it is easy to feel anxious about the 'risks'.

It is important to be armed with the facts so you feel confident and prepared when it comes to managing your sexual health and navigating new relationships in a positive way.

First and foremost, practising safe sex means condoms. Women and men should feel comfortable buying them, carrying them, talking to their partner about them and, most importantly, using them. Condoms come in different sizes as well as latex and non-latex varieties, especially useful for people with a latex allergy.

Secondly, get tested for STIs if you have ever had unprotected sex with a new partner (it happens!). Don't feel anxious about talking to your doctor or nurse - medical professionals are all trained to talk about this important area of health.

  • Most STIs are 'silent' which means they have no symptoms. This is why STIs can be so easily passed on to other people. You cannot tell whether someone has an STI by looking at them - so it is important to ask. Asking in a direct way -"have you ever had an STI?"- is most likely to elicit a straightforward answer.
  • STIs are easy to diagnose. For the common STIs like chlamydia this usually means a simple urine test (both for women and men), although women can also be tested by a swab.
  • Chlamydia is the most common bacterial STI and it is increasing in all age groups including older women and men. More than 90 per cent of infections are 'silent' but in women it can cause symptoms such as bleeding after sex or between periods, painful urination and pelvic pain. In men it can also cause painful urination. The key is to diagnose it early. If you have had unprotected sex or show any of the symptoms described, you should visit your doctor for a test. Treatment is usually a single dose of antibiotics although a longer course of treatment is sometimes needed. We always treat your sexual partners as well to make sure the infection doesn't 'ping pong' back and forth between you. Having a repeat test three months later is also advised to check for a repeat infection.
  • Genital warts are caused by the Human Papillomavirus (HPV) and are easily treated by freezing or application of special creams or ointments. HPV is also associated with pre-cancerous changes on the cervix as well as cervical cancer so it is important for all women who have ever been sexually active to have regular Pap tests up to the age of 70.
  • Genital herpes usually presents as painful blisters which last for about five days. Outbreaks of the blisters may be frequent or infrequent. Websites are available to help you find out the facts, work out the best way to control outbreaks and gather tips on how to talk to your partner about herpes (Factsheet: www.fpnsw.org.au/herpes.pdf).
  • Last but not least, we need to be aware that while the risk of HIV is low for most people, the number of new infections has increased in recent years. In Australia, most infections occur among men who have sex with men but heterosexual transmission is also increasing. If you have any concerns, talk to your doctor so you can work out if a blood test is appropriate for you.

Communication is really the key to preventing and treating STIs. Not just communication with your doctor but communication with your partner. Talking about using condoms, talking about STIs and talking in general is the only way to go.

Deborah Bateson
Medical Director
Family Planning NSW

Stay Smart Online - RSVP security tips for online daters


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Posted by The RSVP Team on 
RSVP is a partner in National Cyber Security Awareness Week, an initiative run by the Department of Broadband, Communications and the Digital Economy to raise awareness of how Australians can improve their online security and protect their personal information when using the Internet. 

Whether you're banking, shopping, communicating or dating, it is important that you can use the internet confidently and securely. Over the coming week, RSVP will be sharing information about how you can protect your personal information when doing things online. 

To get started, here are some tips from RSVP that should guide your online dating behaviour and how you communicate with other singles.

Like so many things we do online, dating is secure as long as you follow some simple principles and exercise commonsense.

TIPS FOR CREATING A SECURE PROFILE

1. Carefully select an online dating username
RSVP asks you for a username for the purpose of protecting your personal information. Your username should be a reflection of your personality but not be a derivation of your real name.

2. Create a unique password for your online dating account
When deciding on a password, make it unique. That means differentiate if from your other online passwords and don't use something simple and easy to guess like your first name with a number before or after it. 

3. Never share personal or identifying details in your dating profile
That means no details about your family, work or where you live and definitely no private contact details. Remember your online dating profile is published publicly - you would not give out your home address and phone number to someone you met on the street, so don't do it online.


TIPS FOR SECURE ONLINE DATING

1. Use the system to protect your privacy
RSVP provides members with an anonymous and secure email address. When you communicate through the site, your personal information is protected by this anonymous exchange. It is designed to enable you to get to know other members before exchanging personal information. You have 30 days of unlimited communication with another member once a Stamp has been used and you've begun exchanging emails. Use this system until you are ready to meet and don't let anyone rush you to take things offline or to other communication channels such as your personal email, mobile etc.

2. Be alert to early declarations of love 
If someone you are in contact with starts declaring their love for you within a matter of weeks (or even days), be cautious. The emails may be long and romantic, so be careful to use your best judgement. If you are unsure, get a second opinion from a friend or suggest a phone call with them to help you make a decision about this person's intentions or legitimacy.

3. Beware of anyone who talks money
Be on the lookout if there is any mention of financial difficulty and the need or request for financial assistance. This can come in the form of requests for money to pay for a visa, an airfare or medical expenses. Beware of anyone asking you to use a wire transfer service or provide your financial details. 

Similarly, beware of anyone who offers money to you. These are always scams. Why would someone you don't know want to give you money?

Put simply - under no circumstances should you provide bank account, financial details or money. 

4. Do not follow links to other sites
Emails that ask you to follow links to other sites are likely to be part of a scam activity and should not be clicked. Reputable dating sites like RSVP do not have links to photos on other sites.

5. Report suspicious behaviour
If you come across a profile or meet someone online who seems suspicious, report it to the dating site and request that the member is investigated. It's better to be safe than sorry.

For more information on National Cyber Security Awareness Week, visit the Stay Smart Online website.

The RSVP Team

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First Date Tips


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No matter if you've been on five first dates, 15 or 50 - it's likely they still make you nervous. And this is perfectly natural - dates are nerve wrecking and we know that many singles don't really love them.

This week, RSVP Relationship and Dating Expert, John Aiken, looks at some practical tips to help prepare for first dates and overcome some of those nerves. From advice on your wardrobe choices to venue considerations - John's advice will help you have more fun dating and meeting new people.

We'd love to hear your thoughts - what makes or breaks a first date?

View the video here.

The RSVP Team

Dating Etiquette


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Etiquette - online and offline - is always a hot topic and this week John Aiken is covering online dating etiquette and the importance of manners.

The principals of etiquette are the same when dating online and offline - courtesy, respect and manners should guide all your interactions.

The RSVP Date of the Nation Report 2012 showed that manners rank within the top five characteristics that Australian singles rate as being very important when looking for a long-term partner.

So what are good manners when dating online? It's replying to Kisses to let members know if you are interested or not, it's letting people down gently, its accepting that not everyone is going to be your perfect match and being respectful of other people's opinions.

When someone sends you an email, it is important to remember they have used a Stamp to do this. Think of it like someone buying you a drink in a bar - even if you're not interested, it would be rude to not acknowledge the gesture. You can always say thanks but no thanks. So, if someone sends you an email and you are not interested or no longer interested - you should always be polite and let them know that you don't think it would work out or that circumstances have changed. 

And when someone does let you know that they are not interested - be gracious and move on.

Did you know being courteous and replying to Kisses and emails is not only good manners but it also improves the position of your profile in other members' searches. It's a win, win!

View the video here.

The RSVP Team

What do you want in your next partner and relationship?


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Posted by John Aiken, RSVP dating and relationship expert on 
It's very easy to simply get swept up in the moment when you fall for a new love interest. They can take your breath away, talk with you for days about anything and everything and the sexual chemistry can be overwhelming! You can spend hours on end thinking about them, contacting them through texts, phone calls and emails, and making plans to introduce them to your inner circle. 

But wait!

Before you go too far with all of this - take a moment to think about what you want from a relationship. What are your expectations and deal-breakers? Rather than just jumping in and seeing how things develop, it would be wise to first identify your relationship needs.

When you're clear about what's important to you in a relationship, then you make good romantic judgments, and don't waste your time with potential partners that aren't on the same page. 

The best time to evaluate your relationship expectations is when you're single. That way when you do date someone, you'll be armed with a clear knowledge about what you want and don't want in a relationship.

Ask yourself the following questions:

  • Do I want a serious or casual relationship?
  • How important is sex to me and how frequently do I want this?
  • Where do I stand on monogamy and cheating?
  • Do I want to be married and how many kids do I hope to have?
  • What do I think makes for a good parent?
  • How do I want to manage money in my relationship?
  • How important is my career?
  • What do I need in terms of communication and affection from my partner?
  • How much does my partner need to get on with my friends and family?
  • What importance do I place on health and fitness (e.g. exercise, drinking, diet, smoking, partying)?
  • What are my core values around religion, spirituality, schooling, discipline, domestic roles, day-care, and commitment?

Once you know the answer to these questions, it's important to think about how you want to discuss these with a new love interest. Do you jump right in on the first date and get these out on the table or do you hold back and feel things out for a month or two?

I tend to think that this will depend on your age and stage in life. If you're young and there's no urgency about finding a long-term partner, then you may hold back on discussing some of your relationship expectations until several months into the relationship. Take things easy and gently bring these up as the trust builds.

However if you're older, and perhaps at a point in your life where you're looking to get serious and don't want to mess around with time, then you would get your relationship expectations out on the table sooner rather than later. Tell your new love interest what you need and want moving forward in a relationship and see if they're on the same page or not. 

It you have the same relationship expectations then push forward, it not, be polite and move on to other options.


John Aiken, RSVP dating and relationship expert, currently seen on Ch 7's the Morning Show, and author of the new book Making Couples Happy: How science can help get relationships back on track (www.johnaiken.com.au)